"So here's a piece of advice: let go when you're hurting too much. Give up when love isn't enough. And move on when things aren't like before. And it's certain there's someone out there who will love you even more. "
When we deal with the relationships we are willing participants of in our lives, we sometimes continue to hold on to relationships that hurt us way too much, way too often. There is a time for everything, and when love isn't enough to hold a relationship together anymore chances are it might be time to move on.
It is important not to leave a relationship in hopes of finding a similar one that may be seen as a bit better than the last as soon as possible, it is instead better for a person to find themselves again when stepping out of a relationship, because relationships can take so much out of us.
What is certainly true is that there is someone out there who will love you even more than you have been loved before if you were continuously subjected to dealing with immense pain in your previous relationships, stay faithful, and always keep your head up
Mind your own business is a very good phrase that gains great significance in today’s life. Some people have the very bad habit of peeping into other people’s matters such as eaves dropping, offering unwarranted comments and talking ill of others in their absence. Such habits bring in a lot of misunderstanding between friends or neighbors. If we develop the habit of minding our own business, these things can be avoided. “The life of others is not an open window for others to peep in”, an unknown quote says, “You tend your garden and I will tend mine. Good fences make good neighbors ‘is very much applicable for all those who want to mind their business. No one has the right to shape or influence other people’s lives. So, it is better to leave it to the concerned person. Since this is a chain reaction, influencing others lives will one day influence his or her life too. Therefore, minding your own business is the best way to live a hassle free and peaceful life. Live and let live
Acceptance, though a hard thing to do, is an essential thing that helps you to improve in life. When you accept a friend as such with his plus and minuses, you gain friendship. When you accept a past deed, you prepare yourself to face the future, when you accept a situation, you become more comfortable. Acceptance is the essence of life and if we try to shun away from acceptance, life becomes a bed of thorns.
As K C Theisen said, acceptance is not submission; it is an acknowledgement of the facts of the situation. It also helps you to decide your future course of action. Those who accept things that cannot be changed are as wise as grass that grows in the riverbeds and those who refuse to accept are like trees there. When a storm blows, the grass accepts and survives but the tree falls to the power of the wind. Acceptance is an important character that we have to inculcate in us, to survive successfully in this world.
No one is going to love you if you don't love yourself.
